If I could give this a million claps I would! I’m in a very similar situation and have struggled with a lot of the same doubts and insecurities. I often worry about the example I set for my daughter by not “working,” and how she will remember me as she grows. I also shrink when telling people I stay home full-time. But you’re so right- fuck the judgment game! I’m constantly reminding myself that feminism is about choices, and I’m no less of a feminist because I’ve made the admittedly privileged decision to take on the rigorous and unpaid work of a stay-at-home mom. Thank you so much for this piece.